Wilson & Lora are active in the Chicago BDSM community and have been honored to speak around the country on a variety of alt sex topics, including humiliation & degradation, fear play, rough body play and face slapping, rapes scenes, and casual play.

Experienced BDSM practitioners, we love the raw, intense, raucous sides of BDSM and believe that BDSM is a unique means through which to explore and uninhibitedly unleash powerful desires and emotions. Perverts to the core, we regularly challenge ourselves, pushing and prodding at boundaries, reaching for more in search of the intensity that we each crave. We love to "go deep" and take what we do very seriously, but we also have a great time with it, which we make every effort to reflect in our presentations.

Our presentations, although focused on what most would consider edge play, are geared toward demystifying even the most intense forms of BDSM scenes by delving into the sources of their power, focusing on practical issues and, wherever possible, providing a demonstration followed by a Q & A session.

Most people into BDSM can grasp, at some level, why someone would want to feel or inflict physical pain, even if they are not into it themselves.  But what about submitting to, or intentionally inflicting, not just physical pain but emotional and psychological pain through humiliation & degradation?  What is the appeal of humiliation & degradation?  What can humiliation & degradation add to your scenes? What can it bring to your relationship?  How do you do it?

We will discuss what we get out of incorporating intense humiliation into our scenes and into our relationship, including why, for us, humiliation & degradation is such a turn on; how humiliation & degradation can be therapeutic and cathartic; and the ways in which it brings us closer together. 

We also will address humiliation do's and don'ts and provide practical tips on how to incorporate this powerful kind of play into your scenes and/or your relationship.  After the presentation, we will do a demonstration of the kinds of humiliation & degradation that we enjoy, which will be followed by a question & answer session.

We are simultaneously attracted to and repulsed by the emotion of fear.

Experiencing fear can be exhilarating and exciting, debilitating and paralyzing, motivating and inspiring. . .and for many, it is a sexual turn on. 

Fear also can be used in great effect to provoke others, manipulate and control situations, and even modify behavior. 

We will discuss some of the different kinds of fear, the range of physiological and emotional responses to it, and the special allure of fear.  With the foregoing in mind, we will consider a variety of ways to incorporate fear into scenes, including demonstrations of fear play.